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Heal. Grow. Connect. Together.
A coaching community for Black couples, women, and men ready to break survival patterns and build healthier love, deeper connection, and emotional freedom.
Because Black people heal in community- not isolation.
The emotional support you've always needed, in a community that finally gets you.
What You're Feeling Isn't Random
Most people think they know what's wrong...
Couples think it's communication but beneath the arguments is emotional disconnection
Women think it's being "too emotional" or " too strong" but it's really survival mode that never let them rest.
Men think it's pressure and performance but it's unmet emotional needs with nowhere safe to land.
These aren’t personality flaws. These are trauma responses shaped by racism, survival mode, and generations of holding it all together.
"Love cannot thrive in survival mode." -Bell Hooks
Why Community Matters
For Black people, healing has always been collective.
We weren't meant to heal in silence.
We weren't meant to carry everything alone.
We weren't meant to "push through" without support.
Black love, Black identity, and Black healing require:
- community
- connection
- belonging
- truth-telling
- nervous system repair
- emotional safety
- accountability
This is the work we do inside The Harmony Collective.
Meet Your Guides
Elvery & Antoine Tinsley
Married 27 years.
Therapist + Coach.
Partners in healing, life, and purpose.
I, Elvery, not only bring the clinical expertise but my lived experiences as a Black woman, wife, mother, and therapist.
Antoine brings his lived experience as a Black man, husband, father, and leader.
Together, we don't just teach theory.
We teach the journey we've lived.
We created The Harmony Collective because, like bell hooks said,
“Healing happens in circles, not in isolation.”
This is the circle for your healing.
Inside the Harmony Collective, you'll receive::
- Monthly Real-Talk Coaching Sessions+ Conversations
- Real Talk + Strategy + Emotional Work
- Monthly Toolkits
- Scripts, exercises, rituals, and practices you can use immediately
- Access to ALL Pathways
- Women's + Couples + Men (coming 2026)
- A Culturally Safe Community
- A space where your story is understood without explanation.
- Member-Only Meetups
- Connecting you to people on the same journey.
- Support That Actually Supports You
- Not judgement. Not pressure. Not isolation.
This isn’t just a membership. It's a movement of community healing.
Real Community. Real Healing.
How The Harmony Collective Helps You Build a New Emotional Rhythm
Step 1- Choose Your Pathway
Pick the space(s) that supports where you need healing most.
Step 2- Join The Monthly Coaching Calls + Conversation + Q&A
Get monthly guidance and practices that help you shift emotional patterns.
Step 3- Heal In Community
Because doing it alone isn't working, and was never meant to.
Step 4- Feel The Shift
More safety. More connection. More peace.
A new rhythm in your life and your relationships.
The Pathways Inside The Collective
Your membership includes access to every pathway because healing is not one-dimensional, and you deserve support in all parts of your life.
Couples
For couples ready to rebuild emotional safety, break conflict cycles, and reconnect deeply.
You'll learn to:
- communicate with clarity
- repair after conflict
- understand triggers
- reduce defensiveness
- build rituals of connection
Women
For Black women ready to put the cape down and reclaim their softness, identity, and rest.
You’ll learn to:
- unlearn survival mode
- regulate your nervous system
- set boundaries without guilt
- reconnect with yourself
- receive without apology
Men (Coming 2026)
For Black men ready to heal without judgment, pressure, or performance.
You’ll learn to:
- define masculinity without ego
- break free from survival mode
- express emotions
- release the 'alpha male' myth
- develop authentic leadership
Why The Harmony Collective Works?
bell hooks taught us that:
"Love is a practice. Love is liberation. Love is community work."
The Harmony Collective brings that philosophy to life through:
- nervous system repair
- emotional intelligence
- truth-telling
- accountability
- vulnerability
- connection
- imagination
- new relational rhythms
We're not here to help you survive.
We're here to help you heal, grow, and connect in community.
Membership Options
Annual Membership $690/year
Best value for long-term transformation
Includes:
- Access to all pathways (Women + Couples + Men)
- Monthly coaching sessions
- Monthly toolkits
- Member-only meetups & events
- Priority registration for retreats & workshops
- A supportive, culturally grounded healing community
- 2 Months Free
Monthly Membership $69/month
A flexible option to start your journey with no commitment.
Includes:
- Access to all pathways (Women + Couples + Men)
- Monthly coaching sessions
- Monthly toolkits
- Member-only meetups & events
- Priority registration for retreats & workshops
- A supportive, culturally grounded healing community
- Automatic withdrawal same day every month
Word on The Street from Members
You don't have to heal alone.
You were never meant too.
Join the community built for Black women, Black couples, and Black men ready to release survival mode and build a new emotional rhythm together!
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