Frequently Asked Questions

Is Harmony Collective Therapy? 

No. The Harmony Collective is a coaching + community-based educational program led by a licensed therapist, but it is not therapy, nor a substitute for counseling, diagnosis, or crisis care. Joining does not create a therapist–client relationship.

If you need therapy or crisis support, please seek a licensed mental health professional in your area.

Do I need to be in a relationship to join?

No. You can join whether you are single, dating, partnered, engaged, or married.
Each pathway supports a different emotional need:

  • Women’s Pathway → For personal healing & self-connection

  • Couples Pathway → For those wanting better communication & deeper connection

  • Men’s Pathway  → For emotional mastery & grounded masculinity

Every member gets access to all pathways.

Can I join the Couples Pathway without my partner?

Yes. Many members attend alone.


Learning tools and emotional skills individually can create powerful shifts in the relationship. Partner involvement is suggested, not required.

Is this community only for Black people?

Our work is centered on the lived experiences of Black couples, women, and men, and grounded in culturally relevant healing.


Everyone is welcome as long as they approach this space with respect for the community and the culture it serves.

What do the monthly coaching sessions look like?

Each month includes:

  • A live coaching call + Q&A

  • A community conversation

  • A guided teaching or practice

  • Access to the replay

  • A monthly toolkit with scripts, exercises, worksheets, and practices

It’s real talk + real tools.

What if I can’t attend live?

No problem.

All sessions are recorded and uploaded so you can watch anytime.

How much time should I expect to commit?

Most members attend:

  • 1-2 coaching calls per month

  • 10–20 minutes per week using the toolkit

Healing doesn’t require perfection just participation.

Do I have to choose one pathway?

No. Your membership includes access to ALL pathways.
You can move between them depending on your season and emotional needs.

What if I join and realize it's not for me?

We understand. Life happens.

You can cancel your monthly membership at any time.

Annual memberships are non-refundable but offer the best value.

Is this confidential?

Yes. We expect every member to honor privacy and confidentiality.

Community safety is a non-negotiable standard.

How do I know this is right for me?

You desire:

  • Real emotional support

  • Tools that actually work

  • Healing with people who get it

  • A culturally grounded community

  • A place where you don’t have to be the strong one

  • A way to love and connect without losing yourself

If that feels true… You belong here.

If you have any further questions not listed here, email hello@elverytinsley.com with your questions and we will respond within 24-48 business hours.